Friday, November 22, 2013

Delaware, Virginia

From Jose

Update on the tick bite I told you about in my last entry: it is healing fine, without any complications.  Now it is just a little scab like any other little scab.

Our next stop was Newark, Delaware to visit my cousin Meri.  She teaches spanish at the University of Delaware and also hosts foreign students. We visited Longwood Gardens. From Wikipedia: "Longwood Gardens consists of over 1,077 acres (4.2 km²) of gardens, woodlands, and meadows in Kennett Square, Pennsylvania, United States in the Brandywine Creek Valley. It is one of the premier botanical gardens in the United States and is open to visitors year-round to enjoy exotic plants and horticulture (both indoor and outdoor), events and performances, seasonal and themed attractions, as well as take part in educational lectures, courses, and workshops." It started in 1798, when brothers Joshua and Samuel Peirce planted the first specimens of an arboretum there.  It was later purchased and greatly expanded by Pierre du Pont. Meri cooked for us some great Puertorican food, including typical rice and beans, and flan. It is the first time Diane tasted real Puertorican food, which is not the same as Mexican food, contrary to popular belief. We also went to the famous UDairy Creamery, a fantastic ice cream shop run by the University of Delaware as part of their College of Agriculture and Natural Resources.

Our next stop was Harpers Ferry, West Virginia. This is an old town at the junction of the Shenandoah River and the Potomac River. I had a special interest in Harpers Ferry because the Appalachian Trail goes right through it and my dear friend Carey came through here about a year ago, during her Appalachian hike. The history of Harpers Ferry is very interesting from several aspects.  It was an important passage way for settlers going West after Robert Harper established a ferry across the Potomac River in 1761.

It also became an important industrial town with the opening of the United States Armory and Arsenal at Harpers Ferry.  Many of the rifles and pistols for the Army were  made here and many advances in manufacturing were developed here. I especially liked the lathe for making the rifle stocks using a metal original, a technique similar to the modern machine for duplicating keys.

It was also important to the abolitionist movement of the day when abolitionist John Brown staged a raid on the armory in 1859, with the intention of capturing the weapons for a slave uprising in the South. The raid failed to capture any weapons, but it captured the attention of the nation.

During the Civil War Harpers Ferry changed hands eight times. The armory was destroyed in 1861 to keep it from falling to the Confederates.

I bought a book about Harpers Ferry so I can learn more.  I hope to be able to read it soon.

Next stop: Winchester, VA , home of Christina and Brian. We took this opportunity to relax, recharge the batteries (in the RV as well as our own). The RV house battery was not keeping a charge so I took the RV to a Camping World to remedy this. Christina and Brian were very gracious to shuttle me to and from Camping World when I had to leave the RV. We did see some touristy things. The house where Patsy Cline grew up is right in the middle of town and looks like any other house. Who would have known that such a star would come out of that simple house. There is a walking mall, where they closed a street to traffic and made it into a plaza with brick pavement and benches. It was nice to relax with good friends. On our way out of  Winchester we stopped at the State Arboretum of Virginia, a big expansion of rolling hills with tons of trees.

Our next stop was Reston, still in Virginia, home of my friend Beth. She and I used to jog together in a running group in Orlando, FL and went scuba diving a couple of times.  She is married to Chris and has two precious daughters, Kara and Zoe. Beth and Chris are very busy with work and family but somehow found the time to make us feel welcome and part of the family. They had some help in this department.

First, from Chris' mom who was visiting from South Carolina. In the excitement of the moment I did not catch her [real] name, for which I apologize. Following the example of Kara and Zoe, I know her simply as Mima. They are lucky girls to have such a great Mima.

And also from Jim and Joanie Hall. Through some lucky twists of fate Jim and Joanie have become Chris and Beth's "adoptive parents" and help care for Kara and Zoe. And they helped us immensely too. Reston is close to Washington DC and I wanted to visit without having to deal with traffic, parking, etc. Diane has never been to DC. Driving the rv through DC was out of the question so a train to DC seemed like the only option. There is a bus stop close to Beth's house but I could not find the right connection between bus and train that would let us see DC without leaving the dogs alone too long. I was about to give up on the idea when Jim offered to drive us to and from the train station, about a half hour drive each way. His kindness made it possible for us to have this important stop in our trip. Huge thanks to Jim and Joanie, Chris, Beth, Mima, Kara and Zoe.

By the way, in DC we took a hop-on-hop-off bus tour that allowed us to get a good glimpse of the city while someone else did the driving and the talking. We got off at the Lincoln Memorial and spent some extra time there and in the Vietnam Memorial ("The Wall").

My cousin Hilda is next on the agenda.  That is where we are right now and we'll cover that in the next update.

I am writing this on November 22, 2013, the 50th anniversary of President Kennedy's assassination. What were you doing when you found out?

Stay tuned.

Cousins

I am thankful that Jose is a good sport when I tease him saying, another cousin? But he really does have a lot, and we are visiting them all around the country. I am also thankful for his cousins as each of them are unique and delightful so far. 

As you know, we visited cousin Bob in California in April. Cousin Marilu and her husband, VV, from Rochester are vibrant, active scholars and intellectuals, making for lively discussions about religion and science at dinner time.  A trip down memory lane via Marilu's photo albums was delightful. And later walking along the Erie canal in Pittsford village, visiting the George Eastman House, and shopping at Wegmans grocery store, provided a perfect sampling of the community.

Meeting cousin Ed and his wife, Carmen, at their home in Guilford, CT, we discovered he was celebrating his 68th birthday and training for a triathlon in Hawaii!  Ed was so welcoming and just like a kid, grinning and joking all evening,  the birthday boy excited to celebrate with us and Carmen.

Carmen is a cook, running a catering business for 12 years, then putting the business on the back burner to focus on her health after finding she had cancer. Six years in remission, she exudes a playful and spiritual side, full of questions for us about life on the road and delving deeply into thoughts about our experiences so far. It was kind of breathtaking for me to pull my subconscious thoughts into cognition and express them verbally. I made a note to myself to list some of the questions Carmen asked adding several others so I can continue to query myself throughout the trip - list to come! Carmen is still cooking on occasion for select events, and her newly designed kitchen is always set up with a smorgasbord for breakfast and dinner for Ed and herself are self-proclaimed grazers.

Let me tell you that after 26 years of marriage, Ed and Carmen remain caring and flirtatious with one another. He is tender with her and she still adoringly courts him asking, Where is my boyfriend?, when he's stepped out of the room.
When I asked her why she moved to CT, she answered simply, For love...

Ay bendito! So endearing and authentic - I selfishly remain hopeful that this is attainable for me some day.

So, how many more cousins, Jose? I'd be delighted to meet them!

I couldn't leave New England!


Well a couple of weeks turned into three, then almost five! Here's a recap that I put together very loosely based on Billy Joel's tune, "We Didn't Start the Fire". It really is one of my least favorite songs of his, but it's catchy and somehow caught the vibe of all the stuff we did in Massachusetts and Rhode Island.  La la la - sing your hearts out!

"David, shopping, Eva and pancakes, Maine, who wants lobster, Ogunquit's Marginal Way

Boston, duck tour, Edward Gorey house tour, Cape Cod, Wood's Hole, Jamie at the ferry!

Beach walk, P-town, cocktail in the afternoon, sidewalk art sale, but they closed the National Seashore!

We couldn't leave New England - with the home fires burning and the leaves were turning
We couldn't leave New England - and they still burn on!

Karen, Mikey, Jen & Ronnie & Amber, Shyanne & Michelle - love my wild family!

Apple cider, Scituate art fest, pumpkins and fall leaves, riding with the top down

Kingstown, Amy, Hanker-Georgie-Kitteh, foliage in full swing,  flea and tick invasion!

We couldn't leave New England - with the home fires burning and the leaves were turning
We couldn't leave New England - and they still burn on!

Newport, seafood, breathing in the salt air, watching all the sailboats, yes I've missed the ocean

Mansions, ocean drive, man I really feel alive, Red Fez, blue bug,  it's good to be home

East side, wickenden, Hope Street, I'm back again, Roger Williams, I'm really doing OK!

We couldn't leave New England - with the home fires burning and the leaves were turning
We couldn't leave New England - and they still burn on

Drove back to my first house, owner let me inside, definitely different, but still much the same

Steelyard Iron Pour, fire and molten ore, Halloween in the air, cello - what an eerie pair

Michelle has free time, happy she's all mine (lol), that's really greedy, I hope she will forgive me

We couldn't leave New England - with the home fires burning and the leaves were turning
We couldn't leave New England - and they still burn on

Bristol, Colt State, Val and a dinner date, Benny's, bridges, goofing round in Target

BBQ, cocktails, jack-o-lanterns, pool room, melty fried candy bars, Hank's Down South

Baked so many apple pies, over a month has gone by, wiping tears from our eyes, but we gotta say goodbye

We couldn't leave New England - with the home fire burning and the leaves were turning
We couldn't leave New England - but the fires burn on and on and on and on..."

I hope I got everything! Love you all

Saturday, November 9, 2013

New York City, Philadelphia, Delaware

From Jose

On our last night in Rhode Island I got a tick bite. It was a little tick but the bite looked nasty. Michelle and Amy said there is a lot of Lyme disease, so I went to a walk-in clinic and they agreed that it could be Lyme disease and prescribed some antibiotics as a precaution.

Our next stop was Guilford, Connecticut to catch up with my cousin Ed and his wife Carmen. I had not seen Ed in about 38 years. Ed is an engineer and Carmen had a catering business and is now semi-retired. They live in a cool forested area, near to town but with big lots and many trees.  Feels like you're miles from civilization. The next day was Ed's birthday and we got to celebrate with him with a scrumptious dinner prepared by Carmen. We talked into the night and the next  day got up early to enjoy breakfast together and talk and laugh some more.

Our next stop was going to be New York City, but I had mixed feelings about seeing New York City. I wanted to see some of it but I did not want to deal with the traffic, crowds, etc. So I asked Carmen if there is a way to see New York City without being there, like a guided bus tour. She said there are a few places along I95 where we could park the RV and take a train to the city. I liked that idea a lot.

We actually only spent a few hours with Ed and Carmen but we enjoyed every minute of it. It was nice to talk and laugh with such nice people.

As we left Guilford we saw a few of the places Carmen mentioned where we could catch a train to New York City. We spent the night in a little town named Norwalk, about halfway between Guilford and New York City to catch our breath and figure out what to do next. Next morning I realized we had not dumped the holding tanks in a long time so I decided to take care of that before any further touristing. The closest dump station I could find was in Croton Point RV Park, about 40 miles NE, along the Hudson River, so we headed that way. As we approached the park, around noon, we noticed a huge train station right next to the park.  When we went in the park office to pay the dumping fee we asked the attendant if we could catch a train to New York City at the train station next door. He said Croton Point is a major hub and that during peak hours trains depart for New York City about every 15 minutes. He also said it is about a 40 minute train ride to Grand Central Station. So we made an impromptu change of plans and decided to stay at the Croton Point RV Park and catch a train to New York City. We debated whether to catch a train that afternoon or wait till the next day, catch a morning train and stay longer. We decided to go just for the afternoon mainly because we didn't want to leave the dogs alone very long. And I did not want to explore New York City thoroughly, I just wanted a taste. After hooking up the RV and making sure the dogs had enough water in their bowl we rode the bikes to the train station and were on the train in a few minutes.

We got off in Grand Central Station and just went outside and walked. In our walk we saw the Empire State Building, old Chrysler Building, United Nations. We did go into the Rockefeller Center and saw the ice skating, NBC studios ("Hello, Al Roker") and the place where the Christmas tree would be (we missed it by a few days). We also saw the jewelry shop district. Just out of curiosity I walked in one of the stores and asked the price of a "Rolex" gold watch. It was $15,000. I am pretty certain it was not a genuine Rolex, it was in a little plastic holder with many others, and had a little plastic thingie protecting the glass. I know the true price of that model is about $22,000. Maybe he had to quote the high price in case I was a cop, and if I had talked to him some more he would have told me the true price but I did not have that much time and I did not intend to buy anyway.

We took the train back to Croton Point and arrived at the RV just in time to feed the dogs their dinner. We slept well that night after a very busy day.

The next day we headed towards Delaware to visit my cousin Meri but before we got there I wanted to swing by the Statue of Liberty. It was well worth the stop. We also took some very good pictures of the New York City skyline.

On the way to my cousin's we drove through Philadelphia and of course had to stop. We found a parking garage that could accommodate the RV and just walked, like we did in New York. During the walk we came upon some parked double-decker tour buses and found out that this was the starting point for a 90-minute guided bus tour and the next tour departed in a few minutes, so we got on. Our tour guide was excellent, knew a lot about the history of Philadelphia. She talked nonstop for 90 minutes and it was all interesting. The biggest thing I got from the tour is that Philadelphia has a lot of personality and it would take a long time to really get to know it. But we did the three main things to do in Philadelphia : 1  See the Liberty Bell, 2 see the Rocky Statue, 3 have a Philly steak sandwich. That's what the tour guide said. In reality they is plenty more to do in Philadelphia. We only spent a few hours there but I  would welcome the chance to come back and stay longer.

As we continued towards Newark, Delaware I saw an old ship moored very near I95. The name of the ship was "United States". I remembered when I was young my brother Cris had a plastic model of a ship named United States and I wondered if this was the same ship. So I googled it and found out that the United States was a famous ship in the 50s. It is the fastest ocean liner to cross the Atlantic in either direction. Several organizations have proposed making it into a floating hotel or museum but nothing has worked out. And for now it sits rusting near Philadelphia. If you are interested read the rest of the story here or follow this link.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SS_United_States

We finally arrived at my cousin's in Newark, DE. But I have rambled enough for today. That will be next update.

Stay tuned.